Love that this post was written the day after my 60th Birthday. Turning Sixty was a pivotal point in my life. I made several personal and private vows to myself because I wanted to start my 6th decade on the good foot.
Enjoying my part time Community Outreach job where I get to do Research plus interactions with the Public.
Daily walks to improve my health. Having fun with the Step Challenges.
Continuing with my Photography, Artwork and writing. Making focused efforts to remain positive and upbeat.
See…it’s a belated birthday gift to you 😉
…and glad to see you doing so many things just for you D! I know they’ll not only help you, but others (like your community outreach job).
More important is to be in a position to do for others. Getting the focus off myself and finding ways to help those in need. Reaching out and finding solutions that will make our neighborhoods safer and better Places to Live.
Wise words from your goddaughter, Kathy! 😀 It is hard to embrace oneself without reservation and giving oneself permission to be oneself, without adjusting to others and their needs. Full marks to Kotrish … I’ll keep her words in mind.
Absolutely. You can pretend to love someone else; you can love someone else partially; you can even be in love with someone else. But, until you love yourself 100%, you cannot give others love 100%.
So simple, yet so true. I have to focus on me. My youngest is in the hospital (he has the flu and pneumonia because when we do something, we go all out). I’m going to take this advice and make time to read and exercise before bed – with the door closed so the nurses don’t laugh.
I thought I’d answered this…maybe in my head, as I sometimes do. Yes, even when we think we cannot, we have to give ourselves a little time. And best of luck with our son; the flu has touched so many this season. I hope he’s well.
Kay, I love this. I’m just now really getting into me. So, I can really relate to this. I used to steal time for myself. I don’t have to do that anymore. I still feel guilty at times, but not as often as before. Thanks for posting.
Thanks Lynette! It is definitely a process and if you’re not used to telling people no, or making time for yourself in various ways, it can make you feel a little guilty. I always think, “They’ll be aight,” and usually it’s true.
Oooh I’m loving this! When you’re not very happy, it’s hard to love yourself, well, I found it hard … but now that I’m happier, I’m beginning to understand what you mean. It’s taken a long time to get there but I am. Thanks for posting. 🌼
Love that this post was written the day after my 60th Birthday. Turning Sixty was a pivotal point in my life. I made several personal and private vows to myself because I wanted to start my 6th decade on the good foot.
Enjoying my part time Community Outreach job where I get to do Research plus interactions with the Public.
Daily walks to improve my health. Having fun with the Step Challenges.
Continuing with my Photography, Artwork and writing. Making focused efforts to remain positive and upbeat.
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See…it’s a belated birthday gift to you 😉
…and glad to see you doing so many things just for you D! I know they’ll not only help you, but others (like your community outreach job).
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More important is to be in a position to do for others. Getting the focus off myself and finding ways to help those in need. Reaching out and finding solutions that will make our neighborhoods safer and better Places to Live.
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What a wonderful reminder!❤️❤️
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Thank you!
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We all need this reminder. Especially women who often put others need above their own.
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Absolutely!
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This is probably the realist definition of self love I’ve seen that resonates with me. I love the giving myself “permission to be”. That’s beautiful 💜
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Thanks Ash. I agree.
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Amen to this answer! It took me a while to get there, but it’s a state of being worth fighting for. We are all worth it and we deserve our own love ❤
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Most definitely! Seems as if younger generations are figuring this out sooner than later, which I adore!
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I love myself a lot, because other wise i couldn’t love other people as well❤️
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Exactly!
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Wise words from your goddaughter, Kathy! 😀 It is hard to embrace oneself without reservation and giving oneself permission to be oneself, without adjusting to others and their needs. Full marks to Kotrish … I’ll keep her words in mind.
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Most definitely Annika! I’m just glad she figured this out in her 30s, as opposed to later in life ❤
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YESSS! As one wise person always says If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love someone else…Ru Paul and I AGREE.😀
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Absolutely. You can pretend to love someone else; you can love someone else partially; you can even be in love with someone else. But, until you love yourself 100%, you cannot give others love 100%.
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YESSS.
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Love this. So true and simple. We need to remember that.
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Agreed 🙂
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So simple, yet so true. I have to focus on me. My youngest is in the hospital (he has the flu and pneumonia because when we do something, we go all out). I’m going to take this advice and make time to read and exercise before bed – with the door closed so the nurses don’t laugh.
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I thought I’d answered this…maybe in my head, as I sometimes do. Yes, even when we think we cannot, we have to give ourselves a little time. And best of luck with our son; the flu has touched so many this season. I hope he’s well.
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Thank you! He’s been discharged from the hospital. The pneumonia is gone, but he still has the flu. It’s going to take a while.
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Sheesh!
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Kay, I love this. I’m just now really getting into me. So, I can really relate to this. I used to steal time for myself. I don’t have to do that anymore. I still feel guilty at times, but not as often as before. Thanks for posting.
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Thanks Lynette! It is definitely a process and if you’re not used to telling people no, or making time for yourself in various ways, it can make you feel a little guilty. I always think, “They’ll be aight,” and usually it’s true.
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I’ve been saying that more and more. And not even flinching. I’m definitely getting there.
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Oooh I’m loving this! When you’re not very happy, it’s hard to love yourself, well, I found it hard … but now that I’m happier, I’m beginning to understand what you mean. It’s taken a long time to get there but I am. Thanks for posting. 🌼
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I understand completely. You’re welcome and thanks for reading and keeping up with them.
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Another creative addition to your blog series on self-love. Wide ranging representation of awesome bloggers. Diverse and yet so connected. 💚🌿💚
This could be your next book Dr. G!
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❤ Weird, Dr. D. Someone else just said/asked the same thing about a next book of these.
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Definitely not coincidence.
A sign from above! 🙂 🙂
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