This was one of the first kwotes I created. Many friends and family call, text or inbox me for advice and encouragement. Listening to someone with my whole heart and then offering what I think will inspire them is inherent for me. In fact, a former student asked if I was a high school cheerleader because of how much I stand behind and uplift others.
Well, there came a time during my 360-mile commute that I felt I had no one to reassure me. Even a cheerleader needs encouraging, I posted to FB. I couldn’t think of one person who I could turn to that would offer words of motivation. If I called my grandmother, then she’d remind me of how dumb I was to have taken the job in the first place. If I talked with my husband, then he would remind me that this was a choice I made, regardless of his early warnings. If I spoke to anyone else, then they would try to solve the problem for me and that wasn’t what I wanted or needed at the time. I wanted someone to tell me, “Hey! You can do it! You’ve done more challenging things in your life. This is no different.” I found that the only person that was going to tell me that was, ME. Consequently, this kwote was born. Cause, guess what? Every now and then, we all have to dig deep and find that inner strength. Trust me; it’s there.
Hey! You did it! Sure, you’ve did more challenging things in your life, but you did this one too – and it was no different. 😉 Seriously, though – you’re fab, Kathy.
Kindness – Robert.
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Thanks Robert!
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Most welcome. 🙂
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This can be a real challenge for those raised in families that fear change. If it seems “safer” to keep one’s head down and avoid attention, advancement and exploration do not hold the appeal they might. When the family chorus is a warning against any attempt to seek new horizons, opportunities will be missed.
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So true Anna! I’ll add that sometimes, families in particular, tend to hold on to traditions for this very reason. I’ve witnessed the anger and hatred that happens in some families when someone says, “Well, nope. I’m going to do something different this year.” I’d like to lump it all under the insecurity umbrella.
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Reblogged this on Hunt's Clubhouse and commented:
Yes, sometimes you have to root for yourself!
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Hi Dr. Garland. Great way of putting it: cheerleaders need cheerleaders, too. I agree! I hope all is well with you =D
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Everything’s cool over here Darryl! I don’t know if you saw, but I wished you a Happy Belated Birthday on David and Tareau’s blog/podcast. How you gone have a bday and not tell anyone on WP???
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So many of us don’t realize the power we have inside of us. It’s there ready to be awakened. Affirmation…repeat…believe…
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Abso-flippin-lutely!
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Ha ha.
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❤ this so much! You're so right. Sometimes, we only have ourselves to motivate us to keep going. Thanks for this reminder.
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Thanks Tunisia!
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Hello, Kathy. I like you kwote. I think that for lots of people, self-confidence tends to increase when they reach their mid-twenties (or later). That was true for me, anyway.
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I thought I’d answered this, but I don’t see the answer. A lot of times I answer in my head and never actually on the blog Anywho, I agree! For me it happened a little later, like 35-ish. It just kinda emerged, like a “what are you doing?” moment.
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YAASSS girl! There are no cheerleaders for the cheerleaders!
I think about that sometimes because I am always the cheerleader IRL. Sometimes I need that encouragement myself 🙂
Thanks for this post Doc.
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…at all girl! Us cheerleaders have to dig deep!
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I know right? 🙂
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Agree! Love! You have too if you want to break chains.
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Absolutely!
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I love this! Sometimes I feel like I’ve chosen the wrong path or that my dreams won’t ever come true and I just have to remember that I’ll always have one fan – me. I know you don’t need me to tell you this but, you can do it! I don’t know what ‘it’ is but I know you can do it.
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Exactly KG! As long as you have a voice, you will always have one fan 🙂 And thanks!!! I’ll keep your voice in my head too.
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Love!!!!
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Thanks Authenticitee!
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I couldn’t agree more! 🙂
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I love this, KE. Your comments were spot-on about how people criticize or try to solve things. Being your own cheerleader works. Positive affirmations, baby, repeat ’em until you believe ’em. 🙂
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Ugh! I’m guilty of it too, but sometimes it’s the worst when others do it to you when all you want is someone to say, “You can do it!” Here’s to positive affirmations Joan!
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Yes! Yes! Yes! Thank you. I claim this — being my own biggest cheerleader and fan. Blessings to you, KE, and to your inner cheerleader. 🙂
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Thanks luv! You know I appreciate you and your daily words!
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❤ Bless you KE
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Leading your own fan club
It occurred to me the other day that I spend a great deal of my life being a member of other people’s fan clubs. By this I mean that I see the best …
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You are so right and I was so pleased when you reminded me so on my above post! Thanks for your support
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…totally forgot that I’d said this to you 🙂 You’re so welcome! Thanks for reading and commenting here.
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Wow! I could have paid attention to this kind of advice yesterday, for sure.
I once had someone tell me that the difference between being a child an adult, is that a child needs someone to encourage them, and adult should be able to do it themselves. Tough, hard advice, but it has some truth to it!
Great post!
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right. Right. RIGHT! It sounds “mean” but I think I agree.
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Actually, I do too…lol…and it’s in spite of my own recent neediness.
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I absolutely agree, we have to be our biggest cheerleaders. But sometimes, we need those corner coaches too…so for the future, should you need one, you can keep in your pocket my voice saying “You can do IT!!”
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THANK YOU!! I’ll keep that in mind 😉
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This is stellar! You bet’cha. Digging this very much. Keep on keepin’ on~
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thanks! So glad you’re giving to it
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That is not what I meant to say lol I’m so glad you’re vibing to it is what I intended.
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It’s all good! No worries.
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True 😊
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