This is my favorite one because it hits home. I had a GREAT wedding, paid for by my Grannie and attended by many who love Dwight and me. As much as I love my hubby, I did find myself waking up like Oh crap! Now I gotta work at a marriage! Anywho, let me know what you think.
And as of today, you can use this link to order the paperback. I figured I’d release it a little early so you can have your copy by October 20th!
I have tried to convey that same message to couples that come to my husband and I for marriage counseling. “It takes more than love to keep a marriage” is a quote that I always use. Good luck with your book. I will have to check it out.
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Right. Love is a great start, but there are so many other factors at play and you never know which one you’re going to have to face until you’re in it, ya know? Please do check it out. It’s available here for either eBook or paperback purchase: http://www.kegarland.com Maybe the couples you counsel will find value in it as well. Also, I’ll begin discussing each wife (one per month) beginning next Friday. Thanks for stopping by, reading and commenting 😉
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A marriage is not a wedding.. But a commitment with Love.. I myself wasn’t even married but I share quotes like this with my married friends.. A good read! Nice one.. 🙂
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Thanks! This is my favorite one too. Hope you pass it on.
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Looking forward to reading more of your posts! 🌸💞
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That is wonderful!
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Thank you! 🌸
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Thank you! I agree. A lot of us get caught up in the pomp and circumstance, instead of the crux of the experience.
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The experience is also what and how much effort husbands and wives put into their marriage. 😊
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I’m right with you!😄
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High Five lol
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Do you have a site? I can’t seem to find it, but I want to support you.
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https://betchadidntknowthis.wordpress.com
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Thanks luv! I’ll take a look soon.
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Thanks for your interest!
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Wow! I can hardly wait to read this book. Congratulations, Katherin! ❤
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Thanks Michelle! I’m looking forward to opinions, sort of lol
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Great reminder of what it’s supposed to be about: not the day, but the journey of days. And the sad part about planning a wedding, from what I’ve seen and heard in my experience, some people almost breakup trying to plan and hold the wedding.
Now if that isn’t foreshadowing, I don’t know what is!
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lol – now that’s amazing if you cannot make it to the altar lol I like that phrase, “journey of days.” It summarizes the experience perfectly.
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I’ve heard about things like that as well! I am happy to say that I have been married for 11 years and am enjoying every moment.
I invite you to take a look at my blog:
http://www.loftforum.wordpress.com
I hope you’ll stop by!
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Congratulations my dear! That’s a great accomplishment for commitment. You might enjoy reading my book The Unhappy Wife. You can find it here: http://www.kegarland.com. I’m headed to your blog right now.
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Thanks!!
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Ah, your posted again…this means you got through the storm ok?
As for the quote..indeed very true.
XxX
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We did! Thanks for the concern Patty.
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I highly recommend elopement. My wedding involved hiking to the top of a mountain in Scotland with my husband to be. We argued about who should carry the lone backpack. I got angry at him when he sprinted off ahead when it was my turn to carry the backpack. We enjoyed a sad meal of ham sandwiches on white bread together, because we were starving from the exercise. We marveled at the ptarmigan and sheep we saw. We almost died summiting on the wrong side of the peak. We helped each other reach the top and then we signed out marriage certificate. Not surprisingly the hike was easier and enjoyable on the way down as husband and wife. Our wedding was a great preparation for marriage!
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Sounds exciting Johanna! And it sounds like an experience every pre-married couple should have. Maybe instead of the counseling that others do, there should be pre-marital extreme sports, or something like that. That’s when you get to see how the other person really acts in specific situations.
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Or I’ll DM you on Twitter
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I’m not sure. Try it and let me know. If not then you can just send to my PayPal and I’ll deliver.
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I would rather do that. Im lazy. What’s the paypal email?
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Send me a message through the contact at the top of my page
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It most certainly isnt! A wonderful quote
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Thanks Ameena k.g. I was happy to hear her say it.
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It’s like the difference between a fairy tale and real life. After the camera stops flashing and everyone goes home and the white dress and tux come off, you’re just two people trying to figure out how to meld two independent lives into one. The rollercoaster ride is just beginning–hold on tight! 🙂
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That’s EXACTLY what I’m saying Joan! I can’t figure out if the generation below me isn’t buying it, or has just bought into a different type of fairy tale, where they show highlights from the fab wedding and prep on social media but still have the same challenges. Time will tell.
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Yay for paperback! I’ll put in an order later today! You guarantee arrival by oct 20th?
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Should’ve had a disclaimer for other countries but it usually prints within 3-5 and then mails within 3-5
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This quote is so true! When we were getting married, people even mixed up the two, asking them how our marriage had been. I don’t know, we had a wonderful wedding but we’re just at the start of our marriage.
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Ugh! They’d ask you how your marriage was, meaning the wedding? That’s interesting. Where’ve you been, by the way? I need to make sure I’m following you properly.
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Katherin, I’ve placed my order and look forward to reading your book.
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Yay! Thanks for the support Rosaliene! I look forward to hearing what you think.
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That is a good quote. In so many movies and books, the wedding is treated as the big finale. In real life, it’s more like the the opening chapter.
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Now that’s a good quote Bun! I might have to create a meme for it: “A wedding is just the opening chapter for a marriage.”
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You’re right! It might look nice as a meme. 🙂
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Great quote. I’ve often thought that if people put even a quarter of the effort into their marriage as they do to planning their wedding, the divorce rate would plummet.
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So true Kim! Just put a tiny fraction of whatever you did for your elaborate wedding into yourself OR your marriage and life would be better.
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So true…beyond all the paparazzi marriage is much more.
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Right. We all have our own form of paparazzi too. No matter where that is, marriage is certainly beyond it lol
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